It is with a heavy heart that I write this
blog for the week, as it isn’t about what I was expecting to be writing about
at all.
This blog is dedicated to Hooch. Hooch was
a five-year-old Dogue-de-Bordeaux who belonged to my neighbour, Mavis. Mavis and Hooch were always together.
Partners in crime prevention; they patrolled our neighbourhood with the
ferocity of a hard-core military service.
Every morning and every evening they set
off from their house and do the ‘circuit’, Mavis with a trowel and plastic bag
in hand in order to clean up after the magnificent beast that was Hooch. Later
on they would stand in their front garden, Mavis chatting to her friends and
neighbours whilst school children would run up to stroke, pet and hug
‘Hoochie’.
I’ve lived next-door to Hooch and Mavis for
about three years. For the first year or so, I lived on my own and Mavis was a
diamond. She looked out for me and I always felt safe with big Hooch keeping
his beady eyes out. Every morning he would see me off to work and every evening
he would be waiting to watch me arrive home. Hooch’s big face would be peering
out of the window, over the window ledge; just next to him would be his
mistress. Sometimes he would be out on his walk and I would give them a wave as
I set off. If Hooch was out and about he would come lumbering over for a stroke
and a fuss. He became a part of my daily routine. He is part of the reason that
I decided to get a dog myself.
Hooch’s gentle nature but magnificent
stature cemented my belief that big dogs are not to be treated as difficult,
aggressive or scary. Mavis’ cat Percy would boss Hooch around his own front
garden. Percy was a villain. Unfortunately for both Hooch and Mavis, Percy died
last week after suffering from bleeding on the brain, which may have lead to a
stroke. Hooch was clearly devastated by the loss of his best friend, as was
Mavis.
The sight of people crossing the road to
avoid Mavis and Hooch still makes me chuckle. You couldn’t get a more placid
dog, or a friendlier and more helpful neighbour. That’s not to say that Mavis
didn’t have to pull Hooch into line every now and again.
Hooch did have a tendency to become very
interested in a certain smell, person, place or animal on his walk and decide
on his own alternative route. When this happened to be the middle of the road
it became a problem and Mavis would have to yell his name out in a tone and
volume that would have struck fear into the hearts of giants. But then Hooch
was a giant and he needed to feel the fear in order to be kept safe.
Mavis is a great dog owner. I think that
dogs are certainly happier and lead a more fulfilling life when they have clear
boundaries, a confident owner, frequent exercise and spend a lot of time by
their master’s side.
“All dogs need a calm, confident leader to
help make them feel secure. Being a leader is not about dominating your dog and
making him submit to you, it is about being a teacher and building his
confidence by using positive reinforcement techniques to encourage good
behavior” – Victoria Stillwell, Dog Expert, Huffington Post, 17th
May 2012
Hooch was certainly a very happy dog until
Percy died. One he’d lost his best friend he started to exhibit symptoms that
went beyond grief. He stopped eating, started drinking a lot and urinating more
frequently, even having accidents on the carpet which he hadn’t done since he
was a puppy.
Mavis took him to the vets where they took
bloods and scanned his abdomen. He had to be hospitalised a week after Percy
died for a couple of days as he hadn’t eaten and was rapidly loosing weight. He
returned looking very weak, sallow and strangely shaven. You could see that he
was still in there somewhere but he was exhausted. Beyond tired. We feared that
he’s given up. Then Mavis got the news.
Hooch was suffering from Lymphatic Cancer. His
lymph glands were swollen and his blood tests showed abnormalities. Treatment
options were offered and considered including steroid injections but the
prognosis was that Hooch would be unlikely to survive. He was given a few days
to live. I couldn’t believe it. I refused to believe it. I wanted the vets to
save him but after reading up about the condition online I understood that
Hooch was suffering from an illness from which he was highly unlikely to
recover and very likely to deteriorate very quickly.
Mavis made the incredibly difficult
decision to euthanise. Hooch hadn’t eaten in over a week and he just wasn’t the
same dog. I went to say goodbye to him and offer her comfort and support that
she was making the right decision.
When I came to the door he almost bounced
over the doorstep and I could see him for the dog that he once was. This
exertion caused him to have to have to lie down on the cool concrete under his
window ledge. His eyes were hauntingly sad. I told him about Rainbow Bridge. I
told him to wait there for us. I’d meet see him again.
I told Mavis about my research and we both
agreed that putting an animal through chemotherapy would be a cruel thing to
do. Treatment would only prolong his life for a short period and his quality of
life would be poor. He was sick, tired and weak. Hooch was a very ill dog.
At 6pm on 13th June 2012 his
pain and suffering was ended.
Silence has fallen down on our street.
Everyone is in mourning. There is no face peering out of the window, no
plodding down the street to the sound of a clanking trowel and the passing
children are no longer greeted by the big friendly beast. This morning Mavis vacuumed
up dog hair for possibly the last time and I told her about Rainbow Bridge.
Just
this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When
an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to
Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so
they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine,
and our friends are warm and comfortable.
All
the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those
who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember
them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and
content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to
them, who had to be left behind.
They
all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks
into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly
he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying
him faster and faster.
You
have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling
together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain
upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once
more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never
absent from your heart.
Then
you cross Rainbow Bridge together.
Author
unknown
http://rainbowsbridge.com
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